Discovering My Characters’ Secrets

Every human being has secrets. Why we hide the truth (or lies) from others and sometimes ourselves is often the most interesting part behind a good secret, but understanding what makes up a secret can help an author write a character in a more genuine way.

So what should we know about our characters’ secrets?

  1. The secret itself: Sounds simple, but it’s not always clear. Sometimes, a protagonist might not even know what his or her own secrets are. Sometimes, a secret hardly seems like a secret at all. Think about the lengths a character goes through to keep it a secret. Is it difficult to hide or hiding in plain sight? What about this secret makes your character feel human?
  2. Who it is a secret from?: Not all secrets are hidden from everyone a character holds dear. Sometimes, they even hide secrets from themselves or from the one person you’d think they’d tell it to first. Sometimes, they aren’t even hiding it at all, but no one is listening.
  3. Why is it a secret?: What are the potential consequences of telling said secret? Consider who they are hiding it from again and why they are hiding it from that specific person. Are the consequences even “real”, or is your character overreacting, unsure, or simply too used to keeping it to themselves? There is a million reasons humans keep secrets: to protect loved ones, to shelter themselves, to build friendships. “Why” can be silly, fun, maddening, or wonderful. It doesn’t always have to be sad or scary.

By understanding these three aspects, an author can shape the scene to expose a character in a meaningful way. We can foreshadow reveals or build up relationships between others. We can even surprise ourselves.

You can also learn a character's secret from another character!
You can also learn a character’s secret from another character!

Listen. I’m a plotter. I have been my entire life. But even then, there comes a time in the writing process where characters turn every plot point on its head and tell us to go another direction.

Considering we’re talking about secrets, it might seem strange for me to tell writers to trust their characters, but trust is everything. Learn to listen to that little voice inside your head (or all your characters’ voices) when it tells you where to go, what not to do, and how to say it. Why? Because they know everything, and often, you don’t. Even though writers create a novel, most writers will tell you they are not in charge. The characters are. By letting go of control, you can let your characters reveal themselves naturally and over time. Yes, even if that means you’ll be rewriting a lot more or editing for what feels like forever. If it’s the right secret, it will be worth it.

Recently, I came to a scene where my protagonist explained part of her past, but by her own admission, she was absent from a scene she should’ve been in. When I stepped back and asked her where she was, she smiled back. A sly smile. One that told me it was a secret. For now. I sighed, but resigned myself to her personality.

If she’s not ready to tell me, she’s not ready to tell me.

I’ve been writing long enough to know when to trust my character’s silence, even when I loathe it, even when it promises longer hours of editing in the months ahead.

Discovering the right secret is worth rewriting. Figuring them out is even better.


15 thoughts on “Discovering My Characters’ Secrets

  1. Interesting post, and it made me think about the many ways contemporary people worry about the opposite of secrets. We worry about privacy, especially online. Everything you put on line can be shared or used to direct advertising. In the real world, there are security cameras everywhere.

    We know that cameras are to deter crime, and we can choose what to put online, and yet… It sometimes seems that nobody can have an actual secret any more.

    1. O_O A book where no one has any secrets at all would be fun/interesting/strange/maybe funny. But I definitely see what you mean. I just listened to a podcast the other day about this. They were talking about Orwell, and the one thing he got wrong was how people would WANT and INVITE cameras into their lives.

  2. I love this. It’s so true. Listen to your characters because they know themselves better than you know them. They know what they would do or say in any given situation and forcing them to do and say what you want often leads to flat, cardboard characters.

    This made me think of my protagonist’s best friend in The Heaven Corporation. He reveals a secret to the protagonist and I had no idea he had this secret until I wrote it! He was full of surprises the entire way through, which made the writing process very exciting.

    1. Thank you for reading and commenting! It’s always fun to read about another writer’s adventure, and I’m glad your character opened up their secrets to you. 😀 Isn’t that the best??

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